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Because You’re Not an Empathetic Parent

The Reason Why Your Children Don’t Confide in You.

Judith Uusi-Hakimo
3 min readNov 25, 2022
Father talking to his teenage son. Son was covering his ears with his fingers.
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One of the most important things parents can do to build a strong relationship with their children is to become more empathetic.

This means they need to see things from their child’s perspective and understand their feelings.

This cannot be easy, especially if a parent has a different personality than their child.

When you put yourself in your child’s shoes, you can better understand their feelings and needs and respond to them more compassionately.

You can better communicate with them, set expectations, and guide them by being empathetic.

This will lead to closer and more meaningful relationships and a deeper understanding of your child’s thoughts and emotions.

When you can empathize with your child, they will feel heard and supported, which can boost their self-esteem and lead to a more positive outlook on life.

Being an empathetic parent teaches your child how to be kinder and more understanding toward others, which will benefit them in the long run.

Like forming healthier relationships with others as they grow older and giving them a solid foundation to build their lives.

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Judith Uusi-Hakimo
Judith Uusi-Hakimo

Written by Judith Uusi-Hakimo

A Nurse by profession. A mother of three and a wife of one. A storytellerl and an aspiring writer.

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